“Everyone’s Paying Their Share,” My Dad Said. “Don’t Expect Handouts This Time.” An Hour Later, $7,200 Disappeared From My Account. He Texted, “Thanks For Covering Us.” I Canceled The Payment — And The Vacation. My Dad Said ‘No Handouts’ Before Our Family Vacation, Then Drained My Account; I Made Him Regret It. He said the words under a string of Christmas garland, the TV reflecting red-and-green across his glass. “Equal split. No handouts.” I nodded like a good daughter and went home to my disc